[Hotfix] Remove pull-escape trick (#40368)

* make HandleStopPull byref

* we get signal

Content.Shared/Movement/Pulling/Events/AttemptStopPullingEvent.cs

@@ -3,8 +3,10 @@ namespace Content.Shared.Pulling.Events;
 /// <summary>
 /// Raised when a request is made to stop pulling an entity.
 /// </summary>
+
+[ByRefEvent]
 public record struct AttemptStopPullingEvent(EntityUid? User = null)
 {
     public readonly EntityUid? User = User;
     public bool Cancelled;
-}
+}

Content.Shared/Movement/Pulling/Systems/PullingSystem.cs

@@ -599,7 +599,7 @@ public sealed class PullingSystem : EntitySystem
             return true;
 
         var msg = new AttemptStopPullingEvent(user);
-        RaiseLocalEvent(pullableUid, msg, true);
+        RaiseLocalEvent(pullableUid, ref msg, true);
 
         if (msg.Cancelled)
             return false;