Decouple interactions from hands, cleanup old events, add new fears (#28393)

* ok basic shit

* second part

* pretend it isn't real it can't hurt you.

* 👁️ 👁️

* shadowcommander review

Content.Shared/Tools/Systems/SharedToolSystem.MultipleTool.cs

@@ -28,7 +28,7 @@ public abstract partial class SharedToolSystem
 
     private void OnMultipleToolActivated(EntityUid uid, MultipleToolComponent multiple, ActivateInWorldEvent args)
     {
-        if (args.Handled)
+        if (args.Handled || !args.Complex)
             return;
 
         args.Handled = CycleMultipleTool(uid, multiple, args.User);